LOVE

" 'You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength, and with all your mind,' and '(love) your neighbor as yourself'."    Luke 10:27

If the love God is asking us for had anything to do with the emotions of the heart, it would be impossible to love Him. Because how could you feel love for the Unknown? 
How could you demand any emotions from your heart?
The love mentioned above refers to a thought, followed by an action.
Biblically speaking, love and giving walk hand in hand. For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son... John 3:16
Therefore, love is giving, caring, respecting, helping, overall it is doing something for someone you love. 

Before people

"Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven."

Matthew 5: 16

Wherever the people of God pass, His Light shines in such a way that people around them feel touched to wonder about His Greatness. It is with much respect that we live this.

Known

"Her husband is known in the gates, when he sits among the elders of the land."

Proverbs 31: 23

The wisdom of the wise woman is her husband's perfume. And so he is honored and respected among all others.

Servants

"For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all the churches of the saints." 1 Corinthians 14:33